Mistakes are to be made throughout life. It is not absurd or rare to fall short of expectations, we all make mistakes. Sometimes you’re offered a second chance most times you just have to suffer the consequence. Learn, live, and move on.

We often search for something or more so someone to fill a void in our heart. We attempt to find a replacement for that emptiness feeling inside of us. We depend on someone to remain in our life for as long as we live. We desire an individual that we can conform into fulfilling our needs. When expectations are not met we blame those who did not bring us satisfaction, while in all honesty we should be blaming ourselves. To find a soul-mate has become a necessity and I’ve finally realized that the search for a person to be your “other half” is overvalued. We long for someone to love us wholesomely; being loved despite countless flaws and continuous mistakes because we can not love ourselves in that way. We are self-abusers mentally and for some psychically. Unhealthy as it may be, that is what we want. Other than being slaves to emotions and feelings, we are also slaves to high hopes and probability; we create expectations, only not to have what we want. We consume an immeasurably amount of time stressing over who we are destined to be with and forget about about ourselves; we need learn to be lonely and love ourselves before considering to love others.

embrace your flaws

Living a life as an optimist isn’t the best when you become a victim of your own optimism, but it’s better than being a pessimist.

Knowing that everything in my life is going to change, it’s a bittersweet feeling.

There are so many different changes that go on through our lives, whether it be between relationships, friends, etc. Sometimes it’s hard to cope with the change that we have to undergo, but change is a good thing. It may not seem like it at first, but  I believe that there will always be a good outcome from it, sooner or later. Change is the watchword of progress.